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Who Will Prepare Your Kids for the Realities of The Internet?
Filed Under Polemics & Politics, Computers & Tech on November 1, 2006 at 8:52 pm
When it comes to safety in the real world kids have vital safety precautions drilled into them. They are warned about the dangers of playing on the road and thought how to cross the road safely. They are also warned about strangers and told not to get into cars with them or anything like that. Hence, despite the fact that there are serious risks out there in the real world, kids generally manage to stay safe. However, the same is not true on the Internet. Many kids are not given a basic education on the very real dangers that exist in cyber-space, or how to protect themselves. As a result they are in real danger as they wander round cyber-space totally un-prepared for the nasty reality that there are very bad people out there who want to harm them. In my view the main reason for this is that many parents don’t understand computers in general and the Internet and the concept of the now all-pervasive social networking sites in particular. Without this understanding they cannot possibly prepare their kids properly so they end up wandering around the Internet un-supervised and un-prepared and become soft targets for pedophiles and cyber-bullies. In my mind this makes a very strong case for teaching children about the Internet and particularly safety on the Internet in school.
This problem was highlighted again today when two of my fellow PhD students in NUI Maynooth (and founders of www.bigulo.com) got some good media coverage for a survey they did of Irish related Bebo profiles. The press-release makes interesting reading and is full of very simple but very effective advice for parents. If you’re a parent I’d suggest you read it, and if you have young siblings who use the net I’d suggest you talk to them or your parents about it. Anyhow, this is an important issue and it needs to be kept in people’s mind so thanks Des and Andy for getting this important issue some much-needed media attention.
[tags]Bebo, mySpace, Internet, Children[/tags]
Thanks a mill for the write up Bart 🙂
On a similar theme, I need to stop my kids visiting youtube.com , as there are some videos I’d rather they didn’t watch. I’ve currently done this by editing etc/hosts and forwarding the domain to 127.0.0.1 it works, but for every user, so I can’t watch anything on there either.
Is there a way of doing this on a per user basis (without me having to buy something)
Hi Nick,
I’m sorry to say I don’t know of any reliable way to do this on a per-user basis. There are probably tools to do it on a per-browser basis. The Apple Parental controls work for Safari but you white-list rather than black-list sites so that’s not really a good solution. The problem is that what ever browser-specific thing you put in place it can be trivially over-come, just go to any download site where you can get a browser and install it into your account and away you go.
Were I to be doing this myself I’d have two hosts files, hosts.forkids and hosts.forme say, and have a small script (or even just an alias on the Mac) to swap them into the location of the real hosts file as needed. It’s not really an elegant solution but it would work.
If you really want to go mad you could write a script to run on login for your kids account and swap the hosts files then. This would work much more transparently but is still not something your average user is gonna throw together of an afternoon as it were.
That currently sounds like a good idea.
Both my brats have thier own pcs but usually they are on the home network but with out internet acess.
They don’t know what a search engine is and are only allowed visit sites which we have vetted and placed in thier book marks.
Another option is to cache the sites they vist so they can browse off line.
These solutions won’t last for ever and at the end of the day it is the parent’s responsibilty.
Schools should at least give the options of evening classes to make parents aware of the issues.
Thier primary school from 3rd class on does use some intersites for reference work but there is a comprehensive consent form to be signed before a child is allowed acess.
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